You all are so wonderful!
So, the Dr. called me back and asked me to bring TJ in for a check up. Which we did. They were able to pass a cathrta so that's good. He said TJ would have a UTI, or a urethra spasm making him feel the urge to pee, or simply bc of the 2 major surgeries he had. So it was a good checkup, I am glad I called, rather be safe than sorry.
...just gotta get him to eat now