So sorry I know you don't know me but my heart breaks for your loss. Please don't rehome your Lola out of fear for her under your care. I went through something similar a few years back and was tempted to rehome my cat that has been with us for almost 7 years because I felt like a fur mommy failure. I am so glad I didn't. He served to comfort me as time went on.
They say in greif therapy not to make any drastic changes in your life for at least 6 months after a loss because you may not be making them clearly. You losing your sweet boy is definately a tramuatic loss.
Warm thoughts and comforts to you and your family. |