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Old 03-14-2011, 11:50 AM   #6
addevo
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Kudos to you for giving your dog in need a loving home. There is a special place in heaven for those who open their hearts and homes to an adult dog.

Do you know much about her history? You mentioned that she'd recently had puppies. If she came from a breeding facility she would have certainly spent her life among lots of other dogs, but may not have been handled much by humans. Or what handling she got wasn't kind. That may be why she was happy to be around the other dogs, but a little shy with you.

As others have said, she probably just needs a little time to adjust to her new surroundings and that she can trust you not to be mean to her. Don't force it and she will learn that you are her new best friend. Providing play time with other gentle, small dogs will help ease her transition. Create a safe, quiet place where your dog can get away from other dogs and people. Interactive play is a great bonding tool, but let her set the pace.

If she came from an abusive or severely neglected situation, she may also be in what my friend who does horse rescue calls a "disassociative state." This is seen in animals who have been abused to the point where they detach themselves and sort of live in their own world. Or she may have the canine version of PTSD.

With time, patience and alot of love she will come around. These often become the most loyal and loving pets.

All the best to you both, and please keep us posted.
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