I am so sorry you are having such a hard time finding the right match. I do want to commend you on doing your research! This site is so informative and helpful! I know of tons of mistakes I made now in hindsight. I just pray that my baby continues to stay healthy! The best thing that could have come from me joining this website is that I now know what to do (and not to do) in the future. That right there will probably prevent me years of grief, and save me a ton of money in the long run! Good luck!