I think rude is rude --
discourteous or impolite, especially in a deliberate way: arude reply.
uncivil, unmannerly, curt, brusque, impertinent, impudent,saucy, pert, fresh.
the degree maybe a matter of opinion.
I think there are times being rude is the only way one can be... or maybe one is pushed to being rude. That is understandable, but it is still rude.
I teach middle school students to cook.. today was a bad day.. after the 50th kid asked the same question and did the same mistake AFTER I explain over and over again how to do it correctly (we were having a food production lab) I think I may have been rude. I understand why.. but I was still rude to a few students.
Am I right? no. Am I human? well... I think so....
So... when the 50th kid did something STUPID.. and I was rude do you think that kid was open to learning? Do you think the rest of the lesson went well for him? Or do you think all he could think about was how rude I was? yelp.. and I am sure when he told the story to him mom he didn't tell about how he broke a rule or spilled the sugar... just that I was rude.
I think that is how it happens here... the same ole heartbreak, the same questions etc. But by being rude or harsh the lesson is lost... what is remembered were the cruel words. I think I understand what some of you mean, but the person asking the same (I really hate --oopps too harsh-- don't like the word stupid) silly question looses any lesson that really could change a life.
I think some of the fighting between such great knowledgeable people over size, color and geezzeee Idk what else is just petty! You all are right in your world, please just respect and agree to not agree.. That is really what makes the world great, and fun is how different we are.
Now.. I like all of you, don't want to hurt any feelings and think it is time for
