I used to pull a little hair up and put it in a band just to get my 2 used to the feeling of having it up. After awhile they sorta got used to it. Hot Rod never and still doesn't like to get brushed or fussed over so I caved and cut his bangs.
But he is sooo much happier.
I started putting Maggies hair up in a single topknot then in pigtails. I've never cut her topknot hair so it is very long now and she will wait for me to put it up before she eats. lol