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Originally Posted by Yorksrule Txshopper,
You have no idea how a lot of the people that try to be a part of this forum feel. I and others who do not do exactly as the circle of a few people who act like they own the forums want are blasted because you don't agree with us. The PMs are numerous, we could have another forum, & if everyone that didn't want to post publicly because of vultures were in it, it would be bigger than this one. I enjoy this forum so I am trying to hold my tongue but only a select few are comfortable posting anything beside small talk. The adm. run it but it is hard to tell. |
There is always room for debate and discussion. The circle of few as you call it are "those who are verabal and post their thoughts and ideas? Do you get phone calls in the middle of the night asking for help from YT members? I get a least 2-3 a week. I am amazed at the number that deal with the birthing process. More then 75% of them have to do with a bitch that IMHO was too small to have been bred in the first place. They call me about what to do- some need to have gone straight to the vet no phone call.
We do not intend to scare these folks- we want them to understand the seriousness of the situation that they have placed their best friend in.
This animal did not choose to be bred- we did it for what ever our reasoning.
Whether it be a planned or unplanned pregancy.
In humans we have planned parenthood. I guess that some of us are the planned parenthood of yorkies. We yike and preach about these little ones being bred because we care about the mom and those puppies. My heart and prayers go out to the mom and the babies.
This is harsh but I have no sympathy for the owner. The owner has the obligation to step up to the plate and act like a responsible and caring adult.
They are in the drivers seat- they need all the knowledge and accurate inforamation they can in a short amount of time. They have decisions that may need to be done quickly and with a clear mind. Everytime I breed my gals "who are larger" I have the same responsibilty- I owe it to my girls.
Vultures- like road kill and enjoy the rewards of death. Do I think that we are vultures no? We want life. We want happiness and joy. We want your breeding experience to be filled with the joy and awe that is part of a newborn. Do we want to see pain and suffering no. WE only wish want the best for you. Many of us have been there and done that. Like a mother or father you want to protect your child from the same mistakes that you have made or seen in your life. Can we completely shelter you no- but we can try to save you from some of the hurt.