[alaskayorkie]

I think you need to find a better group. I've run into individuals like that before but NEVER so many in one place. Their behavior was deplorable.

Socialization is great for Yorkies, but just as Poppy needs to be able to trust the dogs she meets, you need to trust the people you meet.

You might consider slowly building up a network of dog owners who are fun to be around for both you and Poppy, then set up your own, smaller meetups.

As for how to respond to rudeness, the best thing you can do is ignore them. Engaging them is like wrestling with pigs. Everybody gets dirty, and the pigs like it!