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Originally Posted by FlDebra  I know you want the thread to die but I thought I would at least answer your post..... Nothing inappropriate was said until AFTER both Mardelin and Woogieman had already started posting helpful, informative posts to her so I don't think things were said out of frustration of no breeders helping yet, or even while praying a breeder showed up. In fact Mardelin was one of the first to respond to her (see post #9). So I am not sure what you mean.
I don't think anyone would take an insinuation seriouslythat the 2 helpful breeders made "degrading posts or threats." I did not see where anyone said that, but maybe I missed it or maybe it was said "off forum." Mardelin and Woogieman are both held in higher regard than anyone thinking they would do that. Mary made the "damed if you do and damed if you don't" statement before anything went awry here, It is an ongoing reality for them! I see people complain if they don't answer a cry for help within minutes, like they stay attached to the computer 24/7! Then some complain when they offer help, saying mean things and accusing them of thinking they know it all or "are the end-all" -- even when they are just trying to get a pup in front of a vet! But I know Mary loves the breed and animals in general too much to not offer to help when she can. She just rises above it all and thinks of the pup knowing she may get bashed for her efforts. I think Woogieman is made of that same sort of cloth!
Good talking with you Chachi -- I like how you always try to direct help to those in need. |
No I realize the posts that were harsh were because she wasnt taking Bailey to the vet. People were pretty charged up. I am not making excuses for the posts because in reality in those circumstances I wish people would be more thoughtful in their postings to see the greater need is to get the OP to see the importance of getting to the vet rather than run them off. But I can understand the emotion involved and realize that can cause peoploe to say things they otherwise wouldnt