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Old 03-03-2011, 01:19 PM   #143
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Ok.. here is an update. I just got off of the phone with KAS, who is a very freightened 13 year old girl and her mother.

Before I give an update, I want to say that these people have recieved hate mail and threats. I understand how we all take this seriously and care about proper breeding practices with our beloved yorkies but I have seen on this forum how some use this venue to cut people apart who do not believe as they do. Those who feel that because they belong to a certain club or they have certain credentials or they have bred a certain number of years that they are the be all and end all and they use words to belittle and degrade. You have scared this child to death, worried her family and shown your colors. Those of you who offered help without judgements and truly listened to who was speaking to you, realized it was most likely a young child who needed help and assistance thank you, your colors shown brilliantly too.

OK.. Bailey is on her way to another vet. The first vet, the one they have been in contact with since yesterday, does not have an xray capabilities so they have an appt. at 2:30 central time in a larger town that has one. Their vet believes that this is a false pregnancy, he feels no puppy but they are doing an xray to confirm. He does believe Bailey has lymes disease as her symptoms seem to indicate this, however, treatment can not be started until they are sure there is no pregnancy.

They will call me after the second appt to update..

They appreciate the help they have been given but please, let's try and maintain some calm without being so critical before we really know the entire situation. I understand how emotions can get the better of us.. I've been there myself many times.. especially when we feel someone is not doing all they can for a helpless animal.. but to send hate mail and threaten is way beyond reasonable.

Diana
I just also want to say I just went back and reread posts and I dont see where the experienced breeders on here belittled or degraded her. I know you have some issues with show breeders because you have partis and you and the show breeders are not in aggreement that they should be bred but I dont think you should let your views on that run into this and thats what I think is happening. All I know is there are very few experienced breeders who attempt to help inexperienced breeders on here. We as forum members may be hoping and praying that one comes on in a serious situation such as this. I Just hope this dfoesnt turn them away too because the advice they gave is what the op needed to hear whether she was 13 or 35 makes no difference. The more harsher posts were from other members who9 were worried or passionate. and let their passion get the best of them. I am just grateful to the people on here that are willing to help
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