I think so too. My mom (his mom) does too. We are BOTH telling him that it is HIM with the problem, not my grandparents. He is asking for A LOT. He has done a lot for me over the years and I've always tried best as I could to accommodate him and repay the favors.
I offer him my home, basement apartment to live in for a time and he tells me its too far away from where he intends to work (but does not have a job yet). I feel like he really IS being spoiled and unfair.
I want to call him and be like "I want to move to new Mexico but i have no place to live and no job so I need to stay with you for a year rent free and I'm going to bring my 2 dogs, my bunny, my kitten, the 2 kids part time and my bf & I, ok?" Because that is what he is asking of everyone else.
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