Sounds like your brother is being very selfish. I would not allow him to move into your grandparents house. This would be a major upheaval for them to adjust to. Older people are not real good with change and I think this would be very overwhelming for them. I would definitely leave your grandparents apartment off the table. However, you are being very accommodating to allow him to move into your apartment. If he is not grateful for this, than he is old enough to find his own place. Good Luck.
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