Hi there...
Wow, you sound really stressed out with your baby. Be patient, if you stress, she will pick up on it. Use a different word for "poop." With our Snickers (
) we use the word "finish." He knows when we say "potty" it means-pee. He also knows when we say "finish," we mean to poop. Sometimes we will take him out and say "potty" and he will do both. How old is your girl??? If she is young, it could take much time. Also look for clues when she is about to poop, like sniffing, circling etc.
And she won;t have a clue about the potty patch until you show her and get her used to it. They are never going to understand things right off the bat.
She is a demon?????
Eating her poop means that something is not fully digested....try giving her some pineapple with her meal, it will make her poop taste bad and hopefully she will want to stop eating it.
Hope that helps....take it day by day.
-Viv