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misslissa · 01-26-2011, 06:53 PM

Okay I know this is personal to the max but I don't have anyone to turn to right now,and I need to talk.
My best friend of 12 years (I'm only 21) Has decided to join the army and she has been pretty evasive about talking about it. Tonight I sat her down and forced her to talk about it with me. she got mad and yelled at me, I told her I wanted to support her in this decision and she told me I could not support her the decision was made. Then she told me she is thinking of going into this for the next 25 years not the 7 that we discussed And she lied to me about it. when this first come up I asked her If she was thinking of going for life she looked at me and said no.
All I wanted was to be there for her and she told me that I should have helped her memorize the papers she was given but she never asked me to.
she has been isolating me from this and I don't know why. There was a incident with a girl she has in the army work out group with someone sent her a nasty message calling her a home wrecker and some other stuff The girl thinks it was me (just for the record it was not) and this was a bad blow for us. she is isolating me even more now then before and I just want to know what to say to her. but I am so hurt I can barely breath.

the about 10 min ago she came beating on my bedroom door and asked for her book I told her if that was all she wanted then she should leave but I got up and got the book and Walked over to the door I sat the book down but it fell and got wet some of the back pages are wrinkled she was so mad you would think i kicked her puppy she was upset and crying and I just don't know what to do

When I asked her why she lied she said "you dont break as bad when I lie"

How can i fix this, and do i want to. I just need a friend right now And my only real friend is the one I cant talk to.

01-26-2011, 06:53 PM	#1
misslissa YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: canton ohio us Posts: 1,574	so upset and no one to turn to Okay I know this is personal to the max but I don't have anyone to turn to right now,and I need to talk. My best friend of 12 years (I'm only 21) Has decided to join the army and she has been pretty evasive about talking about it. Tonight I sat her down and forced her to talk about it with me. she got mad and yelled at me, I told her I wanted to support her in this decision and she told me I could not support her the decision was made. Then she told me she is thinking of going into this for the next 25 years not the 7 that we discussed And she lied to me about it. when this first come up I asked her If she was thinking of going for life she looked at me and said no. All I wanted was to be there for her and she told me that I should have helped her memorize the papers she was given but she never asked me to. she has been isolating me from this and I don't know why. There was a incident with a girl she has in the army work out group with someone sent her a nasty message calling her a home wrecker and some other stuff The girl thinks it was me (just for the record it was not) and this was a bad blow for us. she is isolating me even more now then before and I just want to know what to say to her. but I am so hurt I can barely breath. the about 10 min ago she came beating on my bedroom door and asked for her book I told her if that was all she wanted then she should leave but I got up and got the book and Walked over to the door I sat the book down but it fell and got wet some of the back pages are wrinkled she was so mad you would think i kicked her puppy she was upset and crying and I just don't know what to do When I asked her why she lied she said "you dont break as bad when I lie" How can i fix this, and do i want to. I just need a friend right now And my only real friend is the one I cant talk to. __________________ Don't say I love you unless you mean it, but if you do say it a lot. People forget.