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Originally Posted by kjc  Report them and file a complaint when you file for unemployment benefits. And if they give you an exit interview, let them know what was really happening and how these people will run anyone out, and will cost the company a ton of money as they'll be having to go through the hiring process time and time again. |
The way this agency is set up, or my position, I would not qualify for unemployment benefits if I am ever let go.
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Originally Posted by boopster Do any of these people report to you? Or are they all on your level? You have to be careful about using the dog training technique on people at your level but there are ways to do it subtly that could help you. |
No, they have their site supervisor. (the #1 person that talks about me) They're in education and I'm in social services. We should be working together to help provide services to our families. I feel like I am on my own and every time I get slapped down by one of them for something somewhere. I'm not perfect, I have made mistakes but I own up to those mistakes. Ive only bee here 5 or 6 months, and the rules are constantly changing. We work with the county and my job is to keep up with those changes, since they as education are out teaching the children. We're each to do our part.
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Originally Posted by Buster Brown You pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get back in the game. Life is not fair and that is one of the hardest lessons to learn. Failure is when you quit trying in life, not when you encounter setbacks. Setbacks are just the learning curve in life. Remember to see this as a test of fire. When you make a sword it goes into the fire and is heated and beaten into shape. Each time it comes out of the fire the blade is sharper, stronger. So look at these complications as a challenge to overcome. I started off a long time ago as one of the few women in a technical field in "Hollywood" If I was not getting harassed by the men who did not believe a woman should be doing the job, it was the women I had to deal with who resented that I was working with the boys and not in the office with them. Many years and obstacles later, even losing jobs because I was sabotaged by co- workers I am successful and proud of myself because I did it with hard work and not by undermining those I work with. I believe in myself and know that I am a good person. I still come up against obstacles but I look at them as challenges to make me stronger. Do not give up.  |
Thanks for the pick me up. It's nice to hear advice from people outside of the situation who are unemotional and unattached. It gives great perspective.