It sounds like you're doing everything right, so just be patient and let things work themselves out. Vinnie and Alex were not too fond of eachother when I brought Alex home this past summer. Vinnie wasn't aggressive, just indifferent. But over the last 6 months, they have grown closer. They are still not what I'd call best friends, and they do fight sometimes, but overall they get along and work things out. I even catch them sleeping side by side sometimes.
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