NO physical violence whatsoever. Yelling, grounding, losing priveleges - YES. Also, one very major rule I have is that it's never ok to look for a reason or person or situation to blame for one's bad behavior...I tell my kids they are responsbile for their own actions, regardless. I don't usually have to listen to "but she..." or "they made me..." or "because it's not fair...". Nope, take responsibility and the consequences that come with it. TOO many parents these days look for a blame or reason for little Johnny or Suzy acting out in school, and before you know it they are irresponsible adults. Just my opinion.
__________________ "The little furry buggers are just deep, deep wells you throw all your emotions into." ~ Bruce Schimmel   |