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Originally Posted by Nancy1999  Great perspective, and I agree with you totally. I guess I see the ending as, "I found one women who've I really would like to date and get to know better," rather than I want to get engaged. You cannot get to know someone on a show like this, and feelings are not real even though the participants think they are. The girls are always so in love right a way, and part of that is competitiveness, if they get a rose; they feel they are desirable. I think they are fun to watch because I do think you get to some insight into human nature, and that's the part that fascinates me, lol, same reason I love YT, I love understanding human behavior. |
I think another reason they "fall in love" on these shows is because they are put in those situations! All they do is wait around for this man to notice them, and when he does they are swept away on the most romantic dates, the best food and drinks, the locations, the places they'd never have been able to go without the show... It's a total fantasy! And then they wonder why it doesn't always work out after the show, when you go back to normal life, back to your job, and him back to his job... You don't look glamorous, you see the flaws, and in most cases I think, you see that both are different people when you're not on tv!