I get it. It is frustrating when you're trying so hard, and it just doesn't work. I've had Kaji since Aug 2009 and there are times that he just won't come to me. We'll be in the middle of play, having a good time, and I'll ask him to bring me the toy. He doesn't, starts to cower, and if I approach him he pees out of fear. We were playing and having a good time, why the fear? It is incredibly frustrating. BUT.... that's what we took on. When he gets that way, I don't approach him anymore. Instead, I lay down on the ground when he gets that way. Instead of cowering, he runs and attacks me with kisses. It's funny! You'll learn what intimidates him and adapt your interactions accordingly.
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