I understand why you are feeling so upset and hurt, and I am hoping your husband was just reacting in anger and didn't really mean to say what he did. I am so sorry this happened to you. I understand if someone has a fear of dogs based on something happening in the past, but I wonder about people who dislike dogs. It is such a huge part of what I value, and I'd have a difficult time with all of this too. The most important issue is how you feel about your little girl. Not only does she make you feel happy, she helps you emotionally and you love her. Your husband doesn't have to love her, but he needs to respect that you do and that you need her. I would continue with the training and eventually you will be successful. My heart would be broken too if that was said to me, but you need to let your husband know how much your baby means to you and, hopefully, it was just said in the anger of the moment. |