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Originally Posted by boopster  I wonder if there's something you can do to have more exposure to different breeds of dogs before you make such a big commitment. I would NOT suggest volunteering at a shelter because you could be exposed to some pretty scary dogs - at least in my local shelter about half the dogs were pit bulls and even though I'm not in the least afraid of any dogs, I couldn't wait to get out of the pens where the pits were kept because of all the aggressive behavior.
Do you have any friends who have dogs? Maybe you could do some visiting just to get used to being around them? Or find a local rescue group that could use your help while knowing your current situation?
I hope you really can conquer this fear -- having a dog to love can be so rewarding. |
Thank you boopster and all you other guys/gals you suggested I get a lot more exposure to dogs of different breeds. It's how I planned on spending the next year or so before I get a dog. I WOULD NOT volunteer at a shelter. I visited some a couple of months ago when my friend was looking for a dog to adopt and I almost had an anxiety attack just sitting in the waiting room. Way too loud and just overall overwhelming.
I will take your suggestions for exposure. I have a couple friends with (well-behaved) small dogs so I will work on interacting with them.
When I do decide to get one, I will likely go through a rescue and let them know my problem so they know to suggest dogs that wouldn't make the phobia come back or get stronger.
BeyonceMomma23: thanks for highlighting just how much time and commitment Yorkies need. You're right. I would never get a dog if I knew I couldn't dedicate the appropriate time and energy to it. And sadly, I won't be able to be a stay-at-home mommy for a yorkie while working on a PhD lol.
Sadly, I think I have to cross Yorkies off my list
I wouldn't be doing the dog justice. Thank you all again for your very honest feedback.
I have to research other breeds you suggested for me like the Maltese and Pom. I don't know if those breeds have a website as useful and open as this one
