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Originally Posted by Sugar's Mom Sounds to me like he is jealous of your new baby. I have no advice to offer different than what others have said. I hope things work out for you. If my hubby told me to get rid of my baby, I would throw his pug straight out the door. Sorry, all you dog lovers. No, really, if i couldn't keep my baby, he would not keep his pug and there would be war in this household. On the other hand, I would be very upset too if a dog tore up my child's "first" of things I intended to save. My son is 29 and I have things from his baby days right on up except a few Christmas ornamnets he made at school that he took to his home and the ex-wife ended up with them. |
Thanks for understanding from another mom's point of view. I'm sorry the ex-wife ended up with them, she shouldn't have a right to them.
He used to like the pug. Then after I got Brandy he stopped liking both of them. The neighbor's dog (we share a fenced in duplex) tore up their stuffed animal and she dug holes even before we moved there. So it was a mess and he blamed our dogs even though I told him that they were with me at the time and when we got home I saw the mess so it couldn't have been my dogs. It's like he is just looking for excuses to hate them. I have no idea how anyone could not love Brandy the way I do. Then my husband just doesn't.
He said before we got her that he wouldn't walk her or hold her because he didn't want to look feminine. He told me to get whatever makes me happy. I really thought that was ridiculous and he would get over that and stop caring about what other people think. Did anyone else go through this with their husband?