I just read all three pages and you are in a dilema aren't you ? Sorry about the project but honestly - that could have happened puppy or no puppy - I remember doing something with my kids and we dropped it after we finished - and poof - all that work gone in an instant.
Maybe you can do a new and improved project and consider that other one a test run ?
On your husband not loving your baby - he may never love Bailey. He may be jealous too and that is something that really is just a personality trait with some people and nothing you do will change it IF that's the case. I feel sorry for you cause I can tell you want him to love your puppy like you do ...so....what about giving them alone time ? Maybe if he HAD to be responsible for the puppy all day and the only one around they would bond better ?
you did make me appreciate the fact that my husband (though ill and can't be too physical) loves them just as much as I do.... and every little thing they do that thrills me - thrills him too
I just want to say sorry for what's going on - send you a hug ....and WE LOVE your baby here.... |