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Originally Posted by WV~Yorkies  I wasn't preaching I just wanted to encourage. Then they keep saying nasty things and I lost it. I am so sorry for that. I started this with a pure heart and was so sad and disappointed when It turned out nasty. |
That may have been your intent, but some didn't take it that way. That's nearly always my intent, and as you know, people don't always take it that way. Are they wrong or perhaps I haven't written it good enough, or a little of both? We're not perfect, we all get our feelings hurt; we don't always have the time to write each post just right, but I think if someone looks hard enough at the post they can see the "intent." I think if we want to become encouraging instead of just preachy, we have to be so careful how we phase things, yet some will still think nagging them and calling them names. I think what some of us see as nasty is really "frustration".