I know i would not go at all I would send your husband with the presents (or mail them or drop them off early) and make it very clear why you are not going.
My family knows if Gatsby cant come I don't come I left my mothers wedding reception because my step fathers best friend let his German shepard out after i was promised he would not even be there
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