I feel that entire thread just got out of control. Megansmama had every right to question the ad by the way it was written. Sugars Mom came on - read the thread, made the corrections - mentioned that she had been ill. A "Thanks for bringing it to my attention" and an "I'm sorry your sick" was all that was needed.
I know her ad said "Limited registration" unless she is very comfortable doing otherwise. I for one think it's very hard to know what exactly was meant by that. I would assume that if I wanted to adopt it would definately be "Limited", however maybe if someone she knew as a "reputable" breeder were interested, it may be different - and maybe a "reputable breeder" wouldn't be interested in this puppy - I'm just sayin'. It's been posted that back in July Sugars Mom was having financial problem - one would have to wonder if all the needed tests been done on this baby? I'm not a breeder but I'm sure that those who are have several questions about this puppy being offered at this age as a possible addition to a program.
The thread read less than compassionate - and I do feel sorry for Dee for that - and at first I kept thinking "why are they giving her such a hard time, after all - she's a long time YT member" I felt she needed to be given the benefit of the doubt. But if there is one thing I've learned on here - the length of time you are a member means nothing. It's the name you've made for yourself while you've been here. The number of posts you have as impressive as the numbers look - mean nothing - It's then information that you put out there for others. I have over 1000 posts and have been here nearly a year - and I don't know squat about how to help someone with a sick puppy, or breeding. But I've learned how to look for a reputable breeder, how to address my babys aggression, and how to "try" to potty train. I've learned from the passionate members on here that often times there are things going on "beind the scenes" that I don't know about - so I've chosen to not comment (much). My favorite prayer:
Dear Lord - Put your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth!
It's the holiday season - we need to show some compassion for those that are sick - or have family members that are ill - understanding for those trying to look out for the babies out there that may be in bad situations, and sympathy for those who have recently lost babies...some to the "Rainbow Bridge" and others just don't know. There are people out there who would really appreciate the time spent on kind words rather than the time spent bashing each other. Better to go offer a hug to someone than to point a finger.
Bridget, Greta and I wish everyone a Merry Christmas and a wonderful Holiday Season. |