I avoid commenting on threads that get controversial, and this one has gone that way although I think it was not the intention of the op. She is right however, there is a spirit of "meaness" if you will at times when the person who is posting is just looking for information.
I love this site, but when I ask a question, I tip toe carefully around the terms and subjects because I don't want to get "shot down" for something that I am doing by mistake. Seriously, much of what is said can be said in a kinder tone. I get what the op was saying and I think there are many others that do too.
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