Thank you all for your input! And dinkyweil I def think its a men thing about feeling uneasy about neutering him...but we love Google way too much to seeing him sufer like this is not easy! Not only did a felt frustated this past weekend, but it broke my heart to caged him! He has been an awesome dog when it comes to obedience. He is always loose at home and all I have to do in leave pee pads in the kitchen and he knows to go there

I def dont want him to start marking the house...
The decision is made we are going to neuter him...now I am researching our area to know where to take him and when...