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Originally Posted by brendarash  I am so sorry you are feeling down and alone. First, if you are feeling depressed you need to make a visit to your doctor to see about getting help for depression. Blood work is a good thing to get done.It can take a few weeks before it gets to a theraputic level. As far as you family not helping you, you need to firmly tell them next weekend (or what ever day is best) WE are going to get this house cleaned up. Do not give them a choice. It sounds like you are to nice,and they know they can run all over you. Let them know ,if your things are still in this house and not taken care of it is going to the dump. Maybe you need to take time for yourself, go to lunch with a friend or with your husband for a change. I know how it is to have many fur babies.I have 6 pups and 4 cats. All indoor cats.I have a husband that is very sick with liver failure, I am his only caretaker, I take care of everything 100%. with no help at all. not to mention,I have a very bad back on top of that,but I love to spend as much time with Mike while I still have him because They do not know how long he has. Good luck, If you need to talk pm me. I will be here to listen. |
Thank you!!! I am sorry to hear about your husband. He is lucky to have you. Anyone that has a full plate and still offers to listen to another is a very caring and wonderful person. Thank you!!!!