Sorry, but I just don't get the connection between a pup and "someone's actual birth child".
Again, I am going with the assumption that someone chooses to contact a breeder because they are already aware of the pitfalls of petstore animals. Thus, they have at least some level of knowledge and an attachment to the idea of owning a pet. Also, none of the breeders who have answered you here are the types who put ads up on internet, newspaper or corner market advertising pups for sale. If they are being contacted, it's because someone has done a modicum of research and has been referred to them through one avenue or another. Therefore, these breeders have the right to assume that what you ask reflects your values.
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