Ohhhh....I remember those days!!! My 'lil Sassafras was SUCH a wigglge worm I thought I'd NEVER see the day when she would be comfortable getting her hair brushed!!! BUT with a LOT of patience, praise and TLC she finally let me do it without a problem. I just took it VERY slowly, giving her a break every few minutes and give her treats. It is also VERY important to use the right tools. I was blessed with a groomer that actually let me bring her in and teach me how to brush her hair so as not to hurt her and gave showed me the right tools and supplies to use. TRUST me , not many groomers will do that!!! I suggestb you check out the grooming section on this site and check out the videos. There are some groomers that are members here too and I am sure they would be happy to advise you too.