Do you exercise her at all??? What type of toys are you offering her to play with?? If she is tearing up the house in your absence, I would suggest putting her is a kennel while you are out for her safety or confine her to a small room where she is unable to get into things. Sounds like she needs a little of obedience training. This can be done with a firm strong voice. And be consistent with her. Remember rewards when she does as you ask...