I'm just reading this thread for the first time, and I honestly think you were just reaching out for help, and to confirm your commitment to Cooper. You've already gotten great advice on here about the potty training, so I just want to wish you good luck. It does seem like you have your plate full, but here's another way to think of the Cooper situation: Once you do make it through this with him, and hopefully bond with him, he will actually make your life easier. He'll take away some of your stress and troubles. How? By being your companion, your little listener, cuddling when you don't feel well and puppy kisses after a long day. I wish you both the best - hang in there, for Cooper's sake.
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