I know exactly what you are saying, Misslissa. My Zhoie girlie has been very independent from day one. She will be 2 yrs in Jan. and she has just recently started coming to me on her own to snuggle. I will dropped anything I'm doing to just sit and love on her.
She was a slow one to build trust in...but it's wonderful to see the trust in her little face when she looks at me....aw, just melts me heart.