[Ringo1]

My Westie was very hard to handle as a pup; and believe me, there were many times when I wished I could send him back! I just wasn't used to that much energy and stubborness. That's a Westie trait. I swear there were times when I didn't even like him . . or he us, I felt.

I was (am) a single working Mom so I understand time constraints.

We started going to agility training one night a week. That helped us bond so much. Ringo loved it and he got used to 'obeying' our commands for a treat. It really did help.

This may not be available in your area. But you can train tricks for fun and get used to working with your dog ~ in a fun, enjoyable way. No pressure.

I would go back to crate training if you can - start over from square one. You will have to go with him when he goes out so you can see if he pees or poops. If you catch him in the act of doing something right (like going outside) ~ then praise, praise, praise. Have a party! Have some great treats - like cooked chicken - or whatever he loves. The minute the last drop hits the ground - treat like crazy and make a big fuss about what a GOOD BOY he is. Such a great dog!

He will eventually 'get' that peeing and pooping outside is what you want him to do. He will want to please you; and he will want those treats!