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Originally Posted by slimem2003  wow! This person asked for advice and help from you guys and all yall did was be hatefull and disrespectful! Alot of what was wrote back to her was disgusting and this isn't a high school chat room. The fact is that the event already occured. ppl putting her down isn't going to change that and just because you tell her to spay her dog doesnt mean that she is so I would think the next best thing to do is hear her out and give the advice that you can so this doesn't happen again. I can understand that if what she wrote made you upset but theres a better way to express that then what yall have shown. she came here for advice not for a tongue lashing and if she didn't care then she wouldn't have bothered to write everyone asking for advice at all!! When I was 17 I was living on my own and saved a pregnent mini rat terrier from a bad situation. I knew around the time she was soppose to be due. I never had a expecting dog before I did all the research I could do, made her a whelping box and had a bed room all to her self. I left to go to the store to get groceries and I had a bad feeling in my gut and turned around to come back home. She had had two puppies one was not breathing and was starting to get cool. I suctioned her mouth and nose and tried to get some breath in her and it didn't work. the other survived and I was so upset and blamed my self for not being there or not knowing enough. I LOVED that dog and I loved her pup and it broke my heart !! now does that make me a bad person!! I makes me inexperienced, but not a bad person to where it would give a right for yall to say the horrible things you have to this person. Mistakes happened, yes I know that. and theres a way to get your point across than being plain out hatefull. I read her messages and a few ppl did give her advice that may help her for next time. the ones that were so upset with her didnt give any helpful advice at all! so what do you think your fussing is going to do? nothing. if this makes you upset then try to help her realize what next time she can watch out for so it wont happen agian. The way she was attacked makes me afraid to ask questions on here for the fear that I may to be in the line of fire. I would think she feels bad enough. I know I sure did. so can we all for the good of yorkies that we love help each other when the ppl need help the most or just tear them down so when they really do need some helpful advice they will be to afraid to ask for it? |
While a lot of what was said could be hurtful, he was given constructive advice which he pretty much blatantly said he wouldn't follow. Also, he came on with the attitude as everyone on here as "bullys with keyboards" and people should should "say it to his face." Now a lot of what is said online can be misconstrued because you're not talking to the actual person, but constructive advice was given. There was some insults that didn't need to be a part of the thread but I could see how frustrating it would be when you are an expert breeder giving advice to someone who won't take it and then knowing there will be another preventable death. I understand that the OP would want some compassion but when you start hurling insults and refuse to take advice, compassion becomes hard to dole out except for anyone except the innocent puppies who suffered to death and any future puppies.
I know I would not be able to breed dogs because I don't have the knowledge base. For this reason, and for health reasons, I had my dogs spayed/neutered. This was the responsible and right decision for my dogs. If I had this tragedy happen, I for sure would not try to breed again. That is what is causing such upset and anger.