Totally understand the asian hair thing...I have been trying to grow my bangs out and they are at the point of hating and wanting to cut them back (and then regretting it
). I wear my hair parted to the side and right now it is just past my shoulders.
For the past several years, I have had the bob cut but I have them undercut it so it curls under with me having to do too much. I cut the sides just a tad bit shorter, but not too much. I like to keep the sides either behind my ears or clipped back as I don't like having so much hair on the sides of my head.
I have been debating going really short as I first want to lose a bunch of weight. I had a crew cut a couple of times and absolutely LOVED it! But then I was in my 20s and 30's.
Once I lose at least 20 lbs, I'm going for it again, lol Hubby hates it but I'm the one who has to wash and style it.
Have you considered going short, like maybe a pixie? but one length? This would give your ends a bit more fullness and then you wouldn't have the choppiness of layers. With our hair, the cut hairs just pop out no matter what you do if you have layers on top of the cut. Good luck.
BTW, I think you look good with your hair now.
