This is what is really making me not like these forums anymore, so many people with negative comments, it seems everytime someone asks a question they get bombarded with rude comments (and these people don't even know the whole story so they have no right to bash) we are here to support one another not bash on people for making mistakes, no one here is perfect everyone is human and makes mistakes, everything happens for a reason. I really do wish you the best of luck I hope your babies are all healthy!
(Dont start insulting someone especially if you don't know the whole situation)