sorry to hear about that. the things we women do for the sake of others. bunjee whimpers in the middle of the night and i'm the one who jumps and gets up to let him out of the crate, or i just a nudge from hubby going, 'can you shut the dog up, i'm trying to sleep...'
on the other hand, we do get to wear cooler outfits and we don't look as silly carrying our little yorkies in a clutch purse.