Give the pom time to get used to the puppy. You have to realize that the pom felt like she was the "center of your world" for the past 8 1/2 yrs and all of a sudden a new member disrupts this close relationship you two had.
Believe it or not I had similar issues with my parents's dog when I met my husband and was more focused on him than the dog. It is more than normal...
Give it time and things will improve I promise.
Best of luck
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