You have given me hope that this will get better.
No, I don't withold water. I am potty training her outside. I have thought of using the pee pads for getting through the night, but to me it seems like double training. One to the pee pads, then second time to go outside.
I have thought about letting her sleep in my bed. Last pup I had I let do that and he never had a problem going through the night. Of course at that time my husband worked nights. He is retired now and I'm afraid he would squish Scarlett if she slept in our bed.