I can honestly say that the good here at YT FARRRRRRRrrrrrr outweighs anything negative here, at all times.
Not everyone expresses themselves in the same way, nor are they required to here
. What one person may perceive as 'mean', another may perceive as helpful and direct.
This is a large community...yes, COMMUNITY...therefore, please keep expectations reasonable. It is unreasonable to expect 66,000+ human beings to agree on everything, or to express themselves in a certain style.
It is sometimes helpful to focus on all the *wonderful* people here, and the kind, supportive things that happen here....rather than the opposite
. If a person chooses to focus on the negative, then their experience will likely be...well, negative.