You are all doing great to help me be encouraged.
My little boy has his up and has held them up no issue since he was about 6/7 weeks old. His breeder kept me up to date with pictures. She also told me that he kept them up.
My little girl did the whole gammit. One up one down; both down, both up. I finaly just decided that she is beautiful no matter how she hold her ears. Last night she decided to start the one up one down again.
I will try the cottage cheese and massage though. Can't hurt. My husband says I over spoil them anyway.

They are so sweet it is just too hard to resist.
He actually told me that if there was any truth to reincarnation that he would want to come back as a puppy in our home.