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Originally Posted by Dracosmom  Hey I have a really dumb question as all of you probe know by now my little Rain men passed away on august 23 and I am 8 months pregnant no I don’t have baby blues, my great husband says I have what he calls PUPPY BLUES. I am still having trouble with expecting that he is gone. And I know this is going to sound bad but it’s like because he is no longer with me I can’t seem to find the time or love to give to frost my female yorkie. I know what some of you may be saying but yes I have lost other animal but not one that I loved so much, or one that was as much a part of our family. Please help does anyone know how long this feeling of not wanting frost around will last, or what I can do to speed up my recover time so I can be with her.  Please nothing mean just helpfully friendly good advices. |
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know it hurts a lot, we lost our baby a few years ago before we had kids. I know your hormones have a lot to do with the emotional part, but I'm sure the ache is still very real. What I'd suggest is to focus on your pregnancy for a bit. Try and get your mind off of the sadness and try to enjoy the happiness. I know it's not much, but I really think it would help.
PS. Congrats on the baby!! We're having #3 in April! Babies are so fun!!