Thanks for all the great advice i am 24 so i have a lot of time to think about it but I completely agree with the fact that parents that didnt want kids but had them so now both the parents and the kids lives are ruined. I feel like i have so much to offer a child of my own but then i think what happens those days when i want to be left alone and i cant shove him/her back up...lol. And im definitely not going to leave this decision up to anyone but myself. I have been with my bf since i was 18 and for like a yr now he has asked me when are we having a baby? But i always tell him real easy for you to say when u will not be the one bearing the child! plus he has three that have not even left the house yet! I am very happy right now but it just seems like all my friends already have kids like im literally the only person in my circle that doesnt have any on top of that they all think im crazy b/c none of them have pets and they have not even gotten married. I definitely need to get married b4 i have my first child if i do have any, I need to get married even if i dont have any skin kids.
I love YORKIE TALK where else can i get this type of advice!
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