We're not trying to judge you. We're just saying that when you fix them, they won't have the issues that come with being intact. You won't have to deal with Philly having her TOTM or Dallas trying to mount her - when she goes into heat. If you can only handle getting one of them fixed, I would choose Philly first. If it were me.
I know that the SPCA in my area offers a FREE spay/neuter clinic once a month. I would contact the one in your area and see if they offer the same.
I've never had any issues like this as I've never had males and females together when they were intact. Mostly, because my animals have come from the SPCA before.
Good luck and I hope you can find something that will help you. That, and you can stop being so defensive. The people that post that you need to get your pets fixed are just passionate and they care about the wellfare of the animals. Sometimes, a little blindly, with regards to the mother/father of the animal.
As I said, good luck. I hope everything gets worked out and you're able to go back to having a happy life with both of your babies and not worry about Philly growling at Dallas or Dallas trying to mount Philly.
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