I'm sorry you feel that we are judging you. I don't think that's the case at all. Sometimes over the internet, tone is hard to read. I hope you continue to spend time here as we all have a lot to offer & love sharing our experiences.
We are here because we love the yorkshire terrier breed; however, I don't think anyone here is against loving a mix breed. We even have some morkie owners here! Speaking for myself, I've owned a mix(maltese/poodle) & I loved her just like I love my Lulu now. I was ignorant to many things dog related back then & I am so thankful that I found YT before ever deciding to get Lulu. But that doesn't mean I wouldn't love another mix breed. It does mean that I will not seek out a breeder who purposely breeds mixes. Oopses happen, but to knowingly cross breed dogs to capilize on the latest fad is wrong just like purposely breeding for tiny yorkies. (To claify, I am not saying you are buying into the "designer dog" fad...I understand you are not.)
I realize you are set on a morkie. That's fine. And honestly, I think most of us had an idea of what we wanted our babies to look like & act like before getting them so I don't think anything is wrong with that. Once we get our babies & fall in love, all that goes by the wayside anyway.
You are committed to patience so I have no doubt that you will be able to find your morkie baby at a rescue.