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Originally Posted by BamaFan121s  I don't think it's a matter of feeling like someone doesn't 'deserve' one. Just more a matter of it not really being their business. I wouldn't ask someone how much they paid for their house, or how much they make at their job. Same scenario, IMO. |
& your rite it is the SAME situation!....
example #1: if you're looking to buy a house & you know someone who just recently bought one...you see the house & you think its Gorgeous...you're gunna ask them how much they paid for that house!...because your looking for one & your doing a lil research.
example #2: you're looking for a job....you're thinking about applying for the same position that your friend is in. you're gunna ask her how much she gets paid...because you want to be sure about what you're getting into....to decide weather you want to go through with it or not.
when people ask these questions...its not to offend you or to have some kinda evil agenda....its just research...to know what theyre getting into.
& to think about....i remember asking this older lady how much she paid for her (tiny, aggressive) yorkie...& she snobbishly said "an arm and a leg!" i just laughed it off & walked away...what i SHOULDVE said sarcasticly was "Well i dont know what country youre come from...but OVER here we buy things with MONEY!!"
i just feel like if u dont like talking about it...tell us. you dont have to lie or be rude. thats just MY OPINION...
