what is their reasoning for wanting him to be crated? Are they scared of potty accidents, chewing something? I recently went to my inlaws and brought Allie for the first time. She is peepad trained but will go outside.I kept her with me on a leash and took her out often, no acidents in the house. It was really exausting trying to anticipae her needs, kinda like having a newborn away for home. At home they can do anything and go anywhere. In my opinion the visit wasn't really worth it. Next time I'll have my mom watch her. She would be more happy and relaxed at home and so would I.