Thank you, everyone for being so supportive. I am tempted to visit a new church tomorrow -- however, I don't want to be vindictive. I tried to be very professional in my replies to his emails and I did copy the church officials on all of my communications -- even though he didn't.

I know that we all must answer for our deeds, and I am not one to judge -- the "Judge not lest ye be judged" scares me to death

I know that I have enough to answer to without that one.